🤯 INCRÍVEL: Women Share 55 Of The Biggest Beauty Lies They’ve Uncovered In Adulthood 😲
The amount of people doing Botox/fillers/ any cosmetic surgery is crazy.
1curiouswanderer:
I was shocked when I learned how many people on my floor at work in a boring corporate job in the middle of the US get filler and Botox on a frequent basis. To each their own!
PopularExercise3:
Yes I’ve found out I’m one of the few that doesn’t get injectables. I’m shocked
That many, many people wear hair extensions/clip ins/tracks. I used to think that every celebrity and other women just have naturally extremely voluminous and very long hair. Which of course some do but not to the extent shown online.
anonymous:
I have tons of hair naturally and I used to wonder how the hell I didn’t have enough hair for some styles I saw on celebrities. Turns out because their hair isn’t real!
I used to think I was the only woman with facial hair. My whole face is covered in peach fuzz. Now that beauty influencers talk about shaving their faces, I realize all women have facial hair to some extent. Also, shaving won’t make hair grow back thicker.
Important_Part_3455:
A couple of years ago I had a long stay in a psychiatric hospital to help me get stabilized and properly medicated. We weren’t allowed to have much as far as “beauty” products due to the fact that some of them can be used for self harm or to harm another. So many of the women who had been there longer than I had had so much facial hair! Some even full beards and mustaches of dark hair. It was so nice to see, honestly.
I was amazed and spent not one second worrying about my lack of razors and tweezers etc. It was comforting. I later found out that ” well behaved” patients could notify a nurse that they needed to shave and they would allow it under the utmost care and supervision but we were watched and security officers were always available to come if needed. I never bothered and it was nice to not focus on my appearance at all other than basic hygiene.
That Bridget Jones in both movies was not fat.
capricornonthecobb:
A lot of those movies back then would poke fun of the “fat” girl who wasn’t fat at all. Not that you should ever make fun of someone but those movies were wild to portray someone who wasn’t a twig was deemed fat
I didn’t think women started getting gray hairs until at least their 40s or 50s. But now that I’m in my 30s, I’m noticing a few coming in here and there, and my friends are saying the same thing. But since most women color their hair to cover grays, I really didn’t know it’s normal for it to happen this early!
Edit: to be fair, I’ve been highlighting my hair since I was 14. Only when I went closer to my natural color did I start to notice the grays popping in, so I’m guessing it actually started happening earlier and I didn’t notice!
Empty_Till:
I started finding gray hair when I was 23 😂 I told my mom and she said “yup that’s about when I started getting them”
uselessfarm:
My sister started to get gray hairs when she was like 17. She’s been coloring them since high school. I’m 34 and started to get gray hairs around 30, now I have a few very noticeable streaks of gray. I have very dark hair and have decided not to color them, if I start I’ll have to be covering my roots every 4 weeks forever. I’m old enough that I’m fine with it, though, I’m sure I’d color them if I started getting them in my teens or early 20s.
That I would go downhill when I turned 30. I am sooo much better looking in every way and I feel amazing too.
brokenstrings8:
Right?! 30 is where I found the freedom to discover myself and express myself. I’m eating mindfully, my job is wonderful and I worked hard to be where I am and find something that I would enjoy going to everyday. I got to raise a puppy and have a serious relationship!
Also, finding out the difference between young love and real love. It’s steady and it’s hard work but so rewarding to have that togetherness.
I’m not scared to say what I truly feel, I can stand up for myself without fear. I won’t be walked on or a people pleaser but can also say no in a respectful way. 30 really is going so much better than I thought!
To achieve no makeup-makeup, you have to wear A lot of makeup 😭😭😭 and most of not all beauty brands, influencers, content creators edit their pictures but claim the “miracle” product they are selling is responsible.
False-Street7628:
Yes !! More people need to realise this ! Influencers, brands etc. are ususally just lying and we don’t need 39834 skin care/make up products at home 😂.
And pills for beautiful hair/skin also don’t work and it’s a lie 😃. Please save your money
That most blondes aren’t real blondes. Sandy/dirty blonde at best and they dye it lighter.
grilldchzntomatosoup:
Same with red hair. Ginger is a spectrum. I have a true ginger type of hair color, as in the actual color of a ginger root. It’s kind of golden blonde with red undertones. But half the people I met say it’s red, and the others argue it’s not because I’m not Weasley or prince Harry orange red.
Ravioli_meatball19:
I actually recently found out from a hairstylist that if you’re doing dye or highlights, they can tell who used to be blonde (but hair is darker now) and who a “true” brunette is and use different colors/types of dye accordingly.
How basically every single female celebrity has had a nose job. I’ve always had a bigger than average nose. I have big lips and my nose suits my features, but I’ve always thought my nose was enormous. Until I started seeing before and after pictures of every celebrity nose job. Now I realize my nose is fine, we just have super unrealistic nose standards.
frenchsilkywilky:
Same with blepharoplasty (the eye crease one). I was screaming and crying my entire middle and high school career trying to figure out why my liner never worked, just to find out everyone else surgically removes their hooded creases. And yet, they’ll still make a tutorial and say “I don’t have hooded eyes but this will work for them!” L I A R S.
Omg! Thank you for this question!
For me it was that you have to be skinny to dress well and wear beautiful outfits.
Growing up in the early 2000s, all the stylish girls I saw in the media were super thin. I wasted waay too much of my early teen years dressing in loose t-shirts because I felt that I wasn’t thin enough to dress well.
Finding a style that suited my body and genuinely looked good on me was such a game changer.
The Pink Tax is real.
Not talking only formal events or weddings. This is just basic upkeep to look presentable in any type of work or social situation. And it’s expensive and time-consuming even if you’re competent ENOUGH try to do most or all of it yourself. And I say this as a mostly DIY girl day-to-day without any of the “hot girl extras” like extensions, custom nail designs, or Botox/fillers and such.
Salons? Ya a few times per year for special occasions! Regular salon hair, nail, facial, lashes, spray tan, makeup consultations, laser hair removal, body scrubs, etc. first of all take SO long. Bless you if you can get to a salon for most of those quarterly. Second, OMFG it’s THOUSANDS per year.
And all that’s presuming you don’t have some sort of issue- I had an allergic reaction to some facial oil and had to work with a dermatologist and cosmetologist to find a skin routine to minimize my skin flaking off at work all day. My eye once got infected by old mascara and I had to replace ALL my eye cream and makeup. A bad colorist screwed my hair a while back and I had to go into the salon monthly for a year to get it reversed. You almost need a slush fund for beauty emergencies, no joke!
Just thought of another one! Makeup will not get rid of any texture on the skin. That person is just using a beauty filter 😭 as a former Sephora employee I’ve had to do alot of convincing on this one.
All these white girls are not beautifully naturally bronzed! I thought there was something wrong with my pasty tush until I discovered all of them are just self tanning! Constantly! Even their faces!!! In WINTER!!!
I tried it once, for like a month (at home with lotion do not fret ya girl would never do a tanning bed) and literally you guys this is so much work omg how do y’all do this year round for literally years?!?
I work at a high end beauty retailer in the US. So many skincare serums and creams advertise that they have collagen and or help rebuild collagen.
Sorry to say but “collagen” cannot be absorbed into the skin. It can only be made by your body. The only beauty treatment that actually helps stimulate collagen production is the platelet-rich-plasma facial or known as the “vampire facial.”.
That it was unavoidable to start sprouting thick dark hairs on my lip and chin in my 30s and have to attempt various methods of removal (regularly). seriously how do they grow 2 inches overnight 😩.
Optimal-Persimmon255:
Omg having a random chin hair was traumatizing
That you can train oily hair to become less oily…
StructureSudden8217:
Another beauty lie I learned after making friends from Japan, it wasn’t actually bad to wash your hair everyday (if it’s straight, probably not applicable to curly cuties). You just need to use good products. Most Japanese people wash their hair at least once daily, and a lot of people there have absolutely luscious hair because of the quality of the products.
I’ve been washing my hair daily for 4 years now, and I have yet to regret this choice. My hair looks way better now that the roots aren’t constantly greasy and it’s also more voluminous. And the daily scalp stimulation has made my hair longer. Daily conditioning was also a huge game changer for my split ends and knotty, frizzy hair.
I agree with lots already posted. But another that stands out to me is that you can, in fact, wear mixed metals. I have a gold necklace I wear all the time, but I will wear silver earrings most of the time. I don’t wear rings anymore, but when I did would absolutely wear both at the same time.
Lifting weights as a woman makes you “bulky.” I’ve been strength training for 7-8 years now (I’m 35) and I don’t even know how to bulk up if I wanted to. Most women will not be able to and if you see someone who looks bulky, they’re either on steroids or something or an insane diet and weight lifting regimen that you will never accidentally stumble upon.
All that lifting weight does is “tone” you, which is what most of us are trying to accomplish (and which can’t be done via cardio).
Also, you can’t spot-reduce fat. Both of these changed my approach to exercise + my body forever in the best way.
The older I get the more beautiful I feel. I just turned 26 on Tuesday and was told I’m “getting up there” by an 18 year old. Little do they know I feel hotter, fitter, and prettier overall than I did in my early 20’s ☕️
Edit: and I was DREADING turning 26 as it’s considered late 20’s but 48 hours later and I’m completely at peace.
I always thought I was bad at doing my hair because it would never stay in any style and looked stupidly sparse in braids. I’d see other girls with thick, beautiful braids and curls and wonder what I was doing wrong. Turns out, it’s just my hair texture. I have *very* fine and straight hair that just simply won’t do anything other than hang there.
I used this product to have this skin 🙂
Then I saw some are born great, some achieve greatness, & some have greatness thrust upon them. You would think some people have a 10 step beauty routine but they just have good genes and don’t have to do anything at all so sometimes comparing yourself with such people might stress you out. some of us have work at it to maintain good skin and not all hyped products work the same for everyone.
The most recent discovery on a lifelong problem is the nature of dermal oil production. Fascinating: blackheads have purpose. Then I figured out the right acids to use and a skin care routine that might be akin to a full chemistry set, but my skin is the best it has ever been. I’m 57 and now only gravity and the lack of caffeine (oil production, right.) are my enemies.
Great question! Have an upvote.
The biggest beauty lie is that we have to try and be beautiful, especially for others. My husband says he prefers me without make-up, thinks my graying hair is fine, and encourages me to just be my natural self. Of course once in a while to get dressed up and put on some make-up can be fun and I’m sure it changes my appearance in a pleasant way, but this obsession with being beautiful every single day and having to do all these things to work hard at it is damaging to people in my opinion. The idea that you need products and to put a ton of time into to be beautiful is the lie.
That you can work against genetics lol. No matter how many miracle products you buy you’re not gonna get thick hair if you have thin hair, you’re not gonna have invisible pores if you naturally have large craters, you’re not gonna have smooth skin if you’re naturally very textured and acne prone, you can’t change your hairline shape, etc. Some people just have better genetics looks wise, I learned to accept that lol.
That white girls have blonde eyelashes which can barely be seen so they use mascara every single day.
I always thought that their eyelashes are black in colour (like Indians) until I saw my white friend without mascara one day!
How many celebrities have had plastic surgery (thank you Lorry Hill!). Like many people I used to think it was just the ones that had the obvious nose jobs or looked somewhat “done” I didn’t realize many of them just have excellent surgeons and only *look* totally natural i.e. Scarlett Johansson, Angelina Jolie. Though they’re naturally very beautiful, even celebrities don’t look like celebrities!
It’s helped me a lot with accepting my own features and seeing through the beauty standard.
The beauty market is out there to make you insecure in your skin that’s why it’s so big.
That I was a ‘naturally’ skinny person/must have a fast metabolism. No no no, nononononono. Age certainly fixed that. I’ve never eaten more mindfully and healthily, and I am certainly no longer what anyone would consider ‘skinny’.
Acne is primarily down to hormones and genetics. You can use each and every product under the sun but if you’re predisposed to it or have something disrupting your hormones, whether it’s a contraceptive or just a plain old period, you’re stuck with it unless you seek medical intervention.
I thought I was doing things wrong for YEARS until a kind dermatologist let me know I just won a terrible lottery with getting adult acne. A round of Accutane later and I only ever get pimples when Aunt Flo is here to visit, and my skincare routine is far less rigorous than it used to be.
That Spanx/shapewear are unbelievably uncomfortable. The shop assistant was unsurprised when I exclaimed and she said mine is a common response. I am not willing to go through that just to look better.
I never learned to do most makeup (just things like lipstick and blush), but recently have gotten interested and started consuming tutorials and other makeup content. I had no idea how much makeup people were wearing all the time that I didn’t notice. It actually made me be less hard on myself and more self accepting.
Most celebrities and models don’t actually look like that. These people are trained to pose and all of the photos they post online are airbrushed if not completely photoshopped. There are plenty of pictures of REAL candids of celebrities, and they look just like me on a bad day too.
This is more of a body/fitness thing that shocked me, but since body image is so tied to beauty I suppose it counts. CW for probably a disordered perspective of bodies.
I was raised to believe most thin people were naturally thin. I assumed there was a small minority of people who were very active and athletic, but that was their hobby, like the really passionate marathon runners and gym rats who posted mirror selfies after every workout. My mom always made a point to tell me I didn’t have to be a “jock” if I didn’t want to while I was growing up. I only recently discovered within the last five years (and I’m 33!) that a LOT more people than I previously thought regularly go to the gym to keep themselves at a certain size and level of strength/flexibility. They just don’t talk about it. It’s part of their routine, like brushing their teeth or taking a shower.
Y’all… please teach your children to stay active. Omg. I wish I had started a gym routine 15 years ago.
One of the biggest cons / lies of beauty is the work over decades to convince red haired girls they need to dye their hair blonde. To banish “the ginger”
Hailing from Scotland, I see a LOT of red heads day to day. One of the biggest sins (IMO) is people thinking red/ginger = ugly. Frustrates me!
In my experience, people going from red to blonde ALWAYS look better embracing their natural red.
Glad this is changing and people are getting proud of their redness.
That in the US most skincare has random ingredients that are not scientifically proven to do anything. Here is some peach extract face wash with banana apple balm that will tighten and hydrate at the same time! Not. It wasn’t until Korean skincare was popularized in the US that companies started using clinical ingredients.
I was always jealous of other women’s lashes. I didn’t know what I was doing wrong.
Turns out a lot of women get lash extensions or lifts.
Getting Botox doesn’t make you look younger. It makes you look like someone your age with Botox.
Embarrassingly enough, that people recommending products is just a brand deal and they most likely don’t even use the product. I fell for the Bloom powder greens advertisement because I actually thought the girls using it were getting good results. Turns out they just get paid to show it on their videos.
I used to always hate my super thin white people lips LOL, finally got some filler (no regrets i feel so confident) and they inject you with a 6th sense, ever since i got it i can tell who has it and who doesn’t.. a LOT more people have it than you would think. dont hate your natural features, social media is just oversaturated with unrealistic standards.
That issues like thinning hair don’t just happen to “middle age” women because of hormones. Mine started at 26.
That people fill in their eyebrows (oops) – I had no idea until I was like 17-18 when I started watching makeup tutorials on youtube. I’ve been lucky to have thick/dark Indian brows and most people around me growing up had the same so I never thought about it.
Skin types (combined / dry, etc) is mostly bs invented and promoted by Estee Lauder.
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