𤯠INCRĂVEL: “AITA For Spending My Sonâs Lottery Winnings?”: Dad Shares Story And People Have Strong Opinions đ˛
Parenting while managing the familyâs money can be challenging, especially when your children are old enough to think that they know whatâs best for them. They might end up choosing instant gratification over, say, saving for a college fund, long-term investing, and other boring but financially responsible things.
A dad turned to the internet for advice after a disagreement in his family on how he had used his sonâs lottery winnings. He bought a round of lotto tickets for the entire family, and the one his son drew won a large sum of money. So, the dad secretly invested it, and it ended up paying off. However, people disagreed about what to do with the new, now even larger sum. Scroll down for the full story and to read the netâs divided opinions.
Itâs questionable to give a teen a huge sum of money without any supervision
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So one father was second-guessing his choice to invest the money his son âwonâ
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Working out who owns what in a family can be difficult
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This story manages to cover a very interesting combination of ethical questions. First and foremost, how does ownership work in a family? Obviously, nearly anything a parent buys for a child is, legally, the parentâs property, since most kids donât have their own income. This is doubly true for something like a lottery ticket, which only the purchasing adult could redeem in the first place.
This is perhaps why many did side with the dad. Having different family members scratch off the ticket is fun, but the author, who is legally an adult and bought it, has to be the one to pick up the money. Nevertheless, most parents tend to avoid playing the âDo you know who actually owns things?â card unless itâs absolutely necessary.
First and foremost, it can really drive a wedge between the child and the parent. Itâs not like itâs the kidâs fault they donât have income, and this just exacerbates the usual juvenile frustration with not having all the rights and privileges of an adult. As many parents know, itâs even worse when the child in question, like in this story, is a teen.
A college fund is a big deal in the US
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On the other hand, there are some obvious and less obvious reasons for the father to hold on to most of the cash. First and foremost, a college fund is legitimately the main way many young adults avoid being in debt until much later in life. The average annual cost at a private institution in the US was $33,500 in 2017. This was seven years ago, so you can bet your bottom dollar that itâs higher now.
As shocking as it sounds, the entirety of these lottery winnings wouldnât cover the entire four-year degree, depending on where this young man aimed to go. However, seeing as itâs been invested well, that money has been grown effectively. A college fund is no small deal; it can and will give this young adult a head start in life, which he will only truly understand when discussing peopleâs college debt a decade later and realizing how lucky he was.
All in all, this money can be a teaching moment for the son
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There is also a âhiddenâ downside to just handing over the money. The dad has more than one kid. Anyone with siblings will be well aware that your brother or sister winning the lottery might be the worst thing possible. The jealousy, FOMO, gloating, etc., might cause a lot of inter-familial strain that the author was quite clever about avoiding. Indeed, by spending some of it upfront, he negated the usual downside of investing, the lack of instant gratification.
Of course, the real question is what he should have done with the earnings from investing it. All in all, holding on to them is by no means bad. He quite generously offered to manage the money for his son for free, something that he will struggle to find later in life.
The dad answered some questions in the comments section
A few readers sided with the father
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