𤯠INCRĂVEL: Woman Worried Her Friend Might Be A Bridezilla After âEngagement Party Planning Picnicâ That Needed 4 Zoom Calls đ˛
While weddings are a huge deal, especially for the woman, they do not give anyone the license to act entitled. These ladies are often referred to as âbridezillas,â and youâve likely read many stories about them on this site alone.Â
This one is no different. It all began when a woman posted on Reddit about her refusal to be a bridesmaid to one of her childhood friends who was getting married. She had her valid reasons for doing so.
However, the bride-to-be didnât take her post kindly and responded with passive-aggressive threats. Scroll down for the entire story, along with some cringeworthy photos.Â
An ugly online exchange between two women recently went viral
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It all began when a woman publicly turned down a childhood friendâs request to be a bridesmaid at her wedding
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She also shared some of her apprehensionsÂ
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The woman wondered whether she was being a jerk
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Having someone drop out of your bridal party can be âanger-inducingâ
According to the authorâs account, Emily was likely angered by her public refusal to be a bridesmaid. While that may be the case, the rejection may have also hurt the bride in a big way.Â
According to University of Toronto researcher Dr. Mariana Bockarova, the rejection can be âanger-inducingâ because it suggests the invalidation of the closeness you thought you had with the person.Â
âThe thinking is internalized, and you may think, âis there something wrong with me that would cause them to drop out?â Alternatively, you may think, âif it were really that special of a relationship, then the person Iâve invited to be part of this day would at least try to abide by my wishes,ââ Dr. Bockarova wrote.Â
Weddings are known to cause stress, even bringing out the worst in everyone, whether itâs the people getting married or those invited to partake in the celebration. According to mental health therapist Danielle L. Moore, it typically stems from the desire for control.Â
âPeople will always reduce you to the version of yourself that they have the most control over, or that they benefit the most from,â Moore said in an interview with Brides.Â
Moore adds that setting boundaries is one of the key ways to prevent wedding drama, beginning with accepting people for who they are and where they are. As she noted, âYou should be able to assert what your needs and expectations are.âÂ
In this case, the boundary setting should be on the authorâs end, which she seemed to have done. She is also aware of what Emily may do and appears to have her guard up, which is important.Â
After receiving such a response, which borders on a legitimate threat, it may be best for her to completely disassociate herself from Emily, both for her peace of mind and safety, as well.
People in the comments were invested in the story, as some shared their unsolicited advice
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The post went viral, as one TikTok user even made a reaction video about it
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The video began by dissecting the post based on the attached images
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The TikTok user did her own research and found out some more details
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@babsgray New unhinged bride just dropped. How far will #Jemily⏠original sound â Babs Gray
The same TikTok user posted another reaction videoÂ
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@babsgray Replying to @Jessica Lynn lamination nation â I have officially been #Jemily⏠original sound â Babs Gray
The third TikTok video talked more about the size of the brideâs ring
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There were also doubts about the postâs authenticity and whether or not it was AI-generated
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@babsgray#Jemily⏠original sound â Babs Gray
Then came the update to the first Reddit post
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The author expressed how she was âfreaked outâ by the package she received
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